Wednesday, October 19, 2005

The count down had begun

The more I grow up, the more I learn about men, the less I want to stick with a man for the rest of my life through marriage.
Now I understand what men mean by wanting to marry a young woman in her late teens. Now I know what they mean by wanting to mold her. Oh yes now I know. Because I don’t think I can get molded now.

I surprise myself with late night inspirations. I know that if I hadn’t written all of the above instantly, I wouldn’t have made it at a later time.


Purgatory said...

go to sleep

McArabian said...

You know how annoyed we get when men don't give women half a chance? I think the same goes for us. Give men a chance, you'll be surprised by what you'll find.

Shopaholic Q8eya said...

I'm afraid I will be feeling the same very soon

samboose said...

It makes me sick to my stomach to see those OLDER men marrying their 17 year-old cousins!!! That's a man that's sick in the head.

BUUUUUT there are those that want more than and object. There are those that want a companion, someone to share their life, someone to share dreams with....they do exisit!!!

Spontaneousnessity said...

that's what I mean when I say the concept of marriage is misunderstood and misjudged, people want to look married not actually be it.

they don't look for a life partner they just want something to have and keep.

Samboose, those are pretty much all taken by now hehe =}

Blossom said...

Men want an object to keep and to give birth !!!

A3sab said...

not all men are the same my dear and as sam said the good ones do exist be patient

Delicately Realistic said...

I agree Flamingoliya, I simply cannot be molded, I've seen too much and been through too much to be like that. It would have been so much easier getting married at a younger age. Arya7 for both parties. The more you grow older the harder it gets.

Misguided said...

Dear Flam,

Though I am not a Woman. i am going to throw in my 2 cents:

I think the older I got the less patience I have for flakiness. With Age comes maturity and with that... the realization that "People" are individuals and different... You realize that the "person" you are going to marry is as important as "her/his" sex. Why would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who is unfinished, unclarified and incohehrent.

I have seen too many people marry at a young age... and have marital problems. Why would I want to mold anyone. Would you?


Equalizer said...

Since most people get arranged marriages, molding is very common, thus the marital problems.

btw I just ate futoor, so if i dont make sense, excuse me :p

*pizzazz* said...

hehe so u're not playdough..

well that has cleared up many things :P~

ana 9a6alt.. baroo7 anam :P

Peach said...

Amen to that sister!

3baid said...

I thought men married young girls because they were more fertile. :/ Or maybe cuz they think they're cute or something. And wouldn't it be better to marry someone who's already "molded" to his liking in the first place?

Salted-Caramel said...

I'm not moldable.

MissCosmoKuwait said...

yep...I couldn't agree more...problem first,,,they want the molding type..but then again...ask some married men why they are they unfaithful..and some have the audacity to say "she never argues back..she does everything I tell her and it gets on my nerves"...jeez...there's no winning with men!...argghh!

Flamingoliya said...

ofcourse this would apply on a different kind of men. not all are the same :)


i call it child abuse.
haven't met that kind yet :p

yes, social marriage!

sa7 elsanich!

i'm running out of patience :p

very true! you said what's on my mind.

Dear Misguided,
I totally agree! sa7 elsanik! too bad no all men think this way.

you make sense dear :p

LOL ;p you really made me laugh.

amen to what? sorry i didn't get it :/

that's another reason yes.
maybe because most marriages are arranged; it's hard to find a fitting molded someone.

that's my kind of friend.

sa7 elsanich!!! very true!
it's like when he marries a young girl for her looks or some other reasons and then in the middle of marriage like after she gets pregnant he finds out that she's still a kid!!! sigh.

Peach said...

"The more I grow up, the more I learn about men, the less I want to stick with a man for the rest of my life through marriage"

To that sister ;)

William said...

I'm one of the good men and I can be molded and taught. The reason is because women intimidate me so I have a tendency to do what they say. Especially since they have powers, like making people fall out of nowhere and stuff :)

Seriously though, if more men were like me, the world would be a better place. Man, I'm so full of myself. There are good guys out there though, but alot of us are already taken. Too bad alot are by undeserving women (same goes vice versa, alot of asshole men have the sweetest women that love them unconditionally).

Flamingoliya said...

cheers ;)

i will summarize my response in to:

will you marry me?