Wednesday, October 04, 2006

You made me horny babe

I don't like it when mit7ajbat take off their hijab and wear fancy clothes for their fiancé. They say it is allowed in Islam. To me, whether it is allowed or not, it just doesn’t feel right. It’s like letting your fiancé check you out and see if you make him horny.

Can’t he just judge behind her regular clothes and hijab? And if she wanted to take it off, does she have to wear fancy clothes?

I am against men visiting women at home to check them out in the first visit just like what happens in arranged marriages. And now they tell me that they also take off their hijab? Would it matter if he knew what type of hair she has?
Salons straighten hair as well as make it curly... so what's new here?

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for those who don't read my blog regularly and just checked it out because of the title.. GOTCHA!

Don’t miss the Lebanese expo at Sheraton tomorrow. For those who love Lebanon and are afraid to go there due to the current situation; Lebanon is here for you. I wish they have zaitoon o labneh oo za3tar oo goodies oo kebab oo hummos oo 3asafeer oo frogs! Can’t wait till tomorrow.



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17 comments:

q8i in disguise said...

Personally ma3a e7terami lel met7ajbat and all religions and believes I am against the 7jaaab (my personaly opinion).
I understand religion or traditions 3end el bado require's wearing 7jab whether u believe in it or not.
but what i don't understand is why a classy girl wears a scarf on top of her head, drives a porsche, wear tight clothes, full makeup. Laaaaaaaaish? etge9eeen 3ala rabbech ya3nee? Why is this hypocrisy? el 7jab mo 3alashan el seter wel 7eshmah? then why do they want to attract attention? unless its the style nowadays ana ma adreeee.
Of course, I don't want to talk about el metnaqbat nowadays in restaurants and cafes drinking and eating (somehow) under the neqab. kaifhum they have the right to breath and live and eat, but not in burger boutique, HOW CAN YOU EAT A BURGER UNDER THE NEQAB FOR GOD'S SAKE. THAT'S DISGUSTING.
Personally if i got married and my wife decides to wear a 7jab, one things for sure, she won't spend another night in the house (I emphasis here again on my respect for the freedom of believe :p~ ).

Purgatory said...

sh7qa emnashba elbanat, kaifhom, lazem warahom warahom, dasha ebmasareenhom.

ana agool eat wo be happy.

Delicately Realistic said...

LOL at ur title
Yeah lo shino ma asaweha. Its so degrading.
Give us the details of the Expo lo ma 3alaich amir :)

Delicately Realistic said...

Oh, and about ur comment in the previous post.
Ana yathoomy kila iyeeny when im on my back too! La o always on top of me ily ma yst7y!
Agolich ri7t ilbidi3 meeting friends, i had cake, o madry laish hal ayam 9ayra ma at7amal il7ilo. So i had to go eat something salty, and u cant get any saltier than maki and soya sauce!
(O ma7ib wasabi wayid)
I posted teh story.
And last comment, cuz i have to be studying, check my post before for details :P
O salmtich
(waay ta3abt)

Brava Valentia said...

dear flammy ... i am against men visiting women at home to check them out as well .. but what if he already saw her in hijab before and he liked her anyway ... in islam it is allowed to see her without her veil ..but without her knowing about it !!. ..ya3ni itizihleg izayed mo zain ;-p

Allah yiwafeg iljamee3 and after all Killah gismah w niseeb !

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Kthekuwaiti said...

I don't understand the women that wear a Hijab and a skin tight leopard body suit.

Flamingoliya said...

just a quick note.. check out Ayya's post about the expo for more details:

click here

Judy Abbott said...

Because being horny is a very important thing to men, thats why god tantalize them about heaven with "7oor il 3een" and them being able to marry 70 women.

Men are built that way with their intesive instinct, and being attracted to their women is actually one of the strongest connection between a man and his wife, imagin a guy married to a lady who is not attracted to her? if he was that loyal faithful type who wont cheat on her, he would have inner fights on daily bases with him self, trying to saticfi his needs but he can't and by so he wont make her happy, their marrige would turn into a big dry apple.
Even communication between them would be hard, attraction plays an important role in marrige, that why we women in islam can say no if we don't like the way the guy looks. Thats why alrasool P. said for their relig, then their beauty and last their a9el o fa9el.

ok i said alot. :)

phoenix said...

Isn't this the weirdest culture ever?

Cr8ivia said...

awwal shay .. ma3tereth 3ala 7ukm ilshar3 o wasaya ilrasol 3alaih islalam batatan .. mahma kanat e3golna o thaqaftna bitkon aqal min il wesol ila 3omq fahm ilshar3 lilnafs il bashareya .. ya3ni abadan ma a3tereth aw a3ammem 3ala iba7at khala3 il7ijab lil kha6eb ..

bas ka ray shakhse li ana .. mosta7el aqbal ib hal shay .. ahtam inna ilrayyal ili jidami eywafeq o yeqtene3 feni lishakhse mo 3ashan sh3re wella ergobti wella jesmi !! ... lakin akeed hatha mo mabda'a momkin ta3memah 3ala jame3 il bashar ..

binisba 7ag 3arth il betha3a bil bait for zawaj 6ab3an marfoth :| a7esa shay jidan jidan moheen .. o il amar law gal la ma yazat li o galaw mako niseb .. GOD!!

q8i in disguise ! agoola itha boleytum fa estateraw :S kol ummaty mo3afa illa ilmojaheron bil ma3seya .. winta ebrafthek o 7atta law kan ray shakhse feek li shar3 o farth min Allah seb7ana o tasre7ik ib hatha here yo3tabar mojahara ! allah eyhadena weyhadek

sarah said...

مرحبا
بوست جيد
بس على موضوع الحجاب الحديث يطول
احنا اتوقع جميعنا متفقين ان الحجاب نلبسه(احنا البنات طبعا
:)
عشان الدين
وبعدها تأتي القناعات الاخرى اجتماعيا او ذاتيا
اما بخصوص البنت لما تشيل الحجاب عند الخاطب
فلذلك احكام
الشرع يقول لازم البنت تستر جسمها وتكشف الوجه واليدين
هذا اللي اعرفه
لكن طبعا الحين البنات ماصاروا يلتزمو بهالشيء
وصارت لما تبي يشوفها الخاطب
في
الرؤية الشرعية
تلبس وتكشخ كشخة عرس
ومسكين الخاطب احيانا المكياج يغير حتى ملامح الوجه
واظن هذا فيه نوع من الغش
حلاة البنت تكون على طبيعتها
نرجع لموضوع الحجاب
وهو يعتمد على طريقة لبس البنت لهالحجاب
البعض تكون متنقبة وساترة جسمعها بالعباة لكن حاطة في عيونها كيلو ميك اب
ليييييش؟؟
شنو الحكمة انا للحين مو عارفة
والبعض يلبس الحجاب بس اذا مالها خلق تسوي شعرها يعني عذر بس
وانا شخصيا احترم البنت اللي ملتزمة باحجابها
ومحتشمة
:))
بخصوص ان اسم البلوق مايطلع في البروفايل
اظن تغيره من السيتنق من تعديل البروفايل نفسه
اظن هو يعطيك خانة تحدد اذا تبي اسم البلوق يطلع او لا
وشكلك حاطه نو
حاول تغيره
:)))
تحياتي عذرا على الاطالة

Fuzzy said...

الموضوع مو موضوع بضاعة الموضوع ان الزواج المفروض رباط ابدي واللي راح يتقدم بالطريقة التقليدية الشرع اجاز له يشوف شعر البنت .. بس مثل ما قلتي الصالونات موجوده واللي شعرها ليفة يصير حرير .. بس في شباب عقد الظاهر بيشوفون النسل شلون بيصير حرير الشعر ولا مثل مايكل جاكسون

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coolfreak said...

Lemme try n put things into perspective.
7jab - for those who believe in Quran. Surat Alnisa2 read it and you'll find out about 7jab. If not, I guess you're cool.
unfortunately, too much of the "deen" we know today has been a wee bit changed and manipulated here n there and mixed with culture and personal beliefs to fit society.
as for our weird culture. Well it is weird, but you can't blame religion for it.
In the matter of using it or not. Well, its a personal opinion I think all upto the "user".
I say: Don't do anything unless u personally believe in it, or maybe beaten with a stick to do it. (I'll allow you that much).

FaYoora said...

Q8i in Disguise
LOOOOOOOOOL! aham shay the burger part ;P

wheres ur blog anyway?
and im with you about the 7ijab ;P

FLAMINGOLIYA
u were creative in putting that! lol

Bas i guess ina it is .. fair and Right for him to see her ..
Why do u think other than that ?

MiYaFuSHi said...

First of all, I am a regular reader and that was just mean!

Second of all, I personally would like to see my husband naked before I marry him so I can't agree with u.

Bala he has weird things? :P

Eww!